Join The Society

Join The Society

Hello, Darlings.

The Society is not a newsletter. It is a room.

Every month, Miss Dandy writes to Darlings who want to travel well, travel as themselves, and travel with the particular intelligence that comes from an advisor who has spent time in the rooms where the LGBTQ+ travel industry actually decides things.

You will not receive promotional emails. You will not receive a roundup of deals. You will not receive content that was written for everyone, which is to say, content that was written for no one.

You will receive one dispatch. One thread. One reason to go somewhere — or to think about travel differently than you did before.

It is free. It is worth it.

What Darlings Get

What you'll get.

01 — The Monthly Dispatch

The Monthly Dispatch

Miss Dandy writes once a month. Sometimes the dispatch is about a specific destination. Sometimes it's about a type of trip that deserves better than it's gotten. Sometimes it's about the particular experience of being a queer traveler navigating a world that wasn't entirely built for you — and the specific joy of finding the corners of it that were.

The tone is camp and literate and specific. If you have ever read a piece of writing and thought this was written for me, specifically — that is what we are going for.

02 — The Queer Travel Handbook

The Queer Travel Handbook

When you join, we send you Miss Dandy's Queer Travel Handbook — a guide to traveling as yourself, covering everything from how to read a destination's actual safety for queer travelers (not just the marketing version) to the questions worth asking your advisor before you book. It's practical. It's specific. It's ours.

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A Note

A note, Darlings.

The Society is not for everyone — and that is entirely intentional.

We speak directly to LGBTQ+ travelers and the people who love them. We do not explain queerness. We do not defend it. We do not make space for discomfort. Allies are warmly welcome; the center of the room belongs to queer travelers.

If that's you: pull up a chair.